Doing The Dishes Leads To Doing The Deed

I’m about to let you in on a little known secret. This is one you can pass down through the ages, from father to son to grandson. If you want to greatly increase your chances of spending time between the sheets with your wife or girlfriend, you don’t need to break the bank or come up with an elaborate, romantic interlude. What you need is a pair of dishpan hands and a bottle of antibacterial all purpose cleaner.

Now, this little piece of advice is not for the newly committed. You my friend are still required expensive gifts and creative declarations of love. This article is for the man who’s in an experienced, mature, committed relationship. Well you don’t have to be that mature, but committed earns you big points. And this especially applies to you if you happen to have a couple of little rug rats running around that you’ve created with your lady!

From a woman’s perspective, we want to enjoy getting our groove on as much as men do. The sexy hesitation comes from the overwhelming demands of the regular routine of the week. With work, school, kids, finances, family commitments, and household maintenance – sometimes you are just too damn overwhelmed to appreciate what sex can actually do for that stress. What we need sometimes is a little reminder. But just coming out with “Hey baby, it’s been a while, why don’t we get it on tonight,” isn’t going to work. You need to warm her up.

I mentioned doing the dishes. But that can be translated into anything that you think would get her attention and have her notice that you were thinking of her. It tells her that you want to alleviate something for her to think about, and it honestly has a hint of appreciation in it too. Do this little chore unsolicited and when she least expects it… say on a Wednesday night.

There is no greater motivator for a woman than to see that something she’s been dreading has already been done, and you standing there with a big smile! For a woman in a committed long-term relationship, this little act translates in to romanticism as much as a big bouquet of flowers – maybe even more so! You will more than likely be pleasantly surprised at what a motivator this act can be to a woman!

So take this little piece of advice to heart fellas! The next time you find yourself daydreaming about a nighttime romp with your girl, roll up those sleeves and get busy. And if you really want to guarantee some action, clean it up and decorate it with some flowers too!